Comments on: Gaining my Stepmoms trust back? http://portablefoldinghammock.com/hammock-q-and-a/gaining-my-stepmoms-trust-back/ The Internet's Most Complete Source Of Portable Folding Hammock Advice, Reviews & Best Prices Sat, 11 Feb 2012 00:00:06 -0600 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.2 hourly 1 By: Jesus A http://portablefoldinghammock.com/hammock-q-and-a/gaining-my-stepmoms-trust-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1693 Jesus A Mon, 14 Jun 2010 19:20:51 +0000 http://portablefoldinghammock.com/hammock-q-and-a/gaining-my-stepmoms-trust-back/#comment-1693 HI, I'm a mom with four of kids and a stepson so I don't how useful my answer might be to you. Well, actually it's more advise rather than an answer. I know how hard it is for a parent to except the fact that our kids are having sex. Here's why it's so hard, because we've been there. Really I was 15 when my mom caught me having sex. I still remember the disappointment in her face the hurt and the worry. Now that I'm a mom and my kids are having sex, I feel the same worry. I really don't want a bad decision to ruin their plans and their long term goals. My biggets worry is a teenpregnancy that would really put a damper on their lives. For you my friend I have another question, did you use protection? It really easy to get caught in the heat of the moment and just do it. Let your mom know that you are aware of her worries for you and from now try to make better decisions for yourself. Oh, and this bf of yours if he was trully a bf he wouldn't put you in these situations by tempting and teasing you into them. HI, I’m a mom with four of kids and a stepson so I don’t how useful my answer might be to you. Well, actually it’s more advise rather than an answer. I know how hard it is for a parent to except the fact that our kids are having sex. Here’s why it’s so hard, because we’ve been there. Really I was 15 when my mom caught me having sex. I still remember the disappointment in her face the hurt and the worry. Now that I’m a mom and my kids are having sex, I feel the same worry. I really don’t
want a bad decision to ruin their plans and their long term goals. My biggets worry is a teenpregnancy that would really put a damper on their lives. For you my friend I have another question, did you use protection? It really easy to get caught in the heat of the moment and just do it. Let your mom know that you are aware of her worries for you and from now try to make better decisions for yourself. Oh, and this bf of yours if he was trully a bf he wouldn’t put you in these situations by tempting and teasing you into them.

]]> By: Lady80 http://portablefoldinghammock.com/hammock-q-and-a/gaining-my-stepmoms-trust-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1694 Lady80 Mon, 14 Jun 2010 19:20:51 +0000 http://portablefoldinghammock.com/hammock-q-and-a/gaining-my-stepmoms-trust-back/#comment-1694 Personally at 16 years old , spanking would have been out of the question. You guys really need to talk about protection and control. what about your dad did you talk to him about it? to me your step mom sounds a little selfish she needs to step it up and be an adult about it she probably was doing the same thing at 16. Personally at 16 years old , spanking would have been out of the question. You guys really need to talk about protection and control. what about your dad did you talk to him about it? to me your step mom sounds a little selfish she needs to step it up and be an adult about it she probably was doing the same thing at 16.

]]> By: David S http://portablefoldinghammock.com/hammock-q-and-a/gaining-my-stepmoms-trust-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1695 David S Mon, 14 Jun 2010 19:20:51 +0000 http://portablefoldinghammock.com/hammock-q-and-a/gaining-my-stepmoms-trust-back/#comment-1695 I'm sure it is hard for her to face the reality that 16 year old girls have sex. She should have the long talk about safety and condoms and put you on birth control right away. Since she isn't mature enough to handle it then you should go to planned parenthood on your own and get some birth control. It is hard for adults to realize their little kids are almost all grown up. I’m sure it is hard for her to face the reality that 16 year old girls have sex.

She should have the long talk about safety and condoms and put you on birth control right away.

Since she isn’t mature enough to handle it then you should go to planned parenthood on your own and get some birth control.

It is hard for adults to realize their little kids are almost all grown up.

]]> By: avalon552 http://portablefoldinghammock.com/hammock-q-and-a/gaining-my-stepmoms-trust-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1696 avalon552 Mon, 14 Jun 2010 19:20:51 +0000 http://portablefoldinghammock.com/hammock-q-and-a/gaining-my-stepmoms-trust-back/#comment-1696 talk to her reasonably. tell her that you feel ready to be sexually active. make sure she knows you are being safe (hopefully you are) and explain what you are doing to be safe. getting defensive/ mad will only escalate the problem. try to reason with her. she will not be happy about it but if she feels that you honest and safe then maybe she will accept it. no parent wants to know that their baby is having sex. if shes spanking you at 16 then she probably hasnt accepted you arent a little girl in pigtails anymore so be prepared for her to fight about it. just explain your reasoning and leave her too cool down and think about it. being mature in your approach will make it easier for her to see your way talk to her reasonably. tell her that you feel ready to be sexually active. make sure she knows you are being safe (hopefully you are) and explain what you are doing to be safe. getting defensive/ mad will only escalate the problem. try to reason with her. she will not be happy about it but if she feels that you honest and safe then maybe she will accept it. no parent wants to know that their baby is having sex. if shes spanking you at 16 then she probably hasnt accepted you arent a little girl in pigtails anymore so be prepared for her to fight about it. just explain your reasoning and leave her too cool down and think about it. being mature in your approach will make it easier for her to see your way

]]> By: bri http://portablefoldinghammock.com/hammock-q-and-a/gaining-my-stepmoms-trust-back/comment-page-1/#comment-1697 bri Mon, 14 Jun 2010 19:20:51 +0000 http://portablefoldinghammock.com/hammock-q-and-a/gaining-my-stepmoms-trust-back/#comment-1697 The only way to get back trust is to tell the truth and come to an understanding with her. You are a sexually active female and are likely to stay that way. Once you have been sexualised you are no longer innocent and unaware. Talk to your step mom and apologise for behaving irresponsibly by having sex on the beach in public. Explain you are sexually a woman and using contraceptives (make sure you are) , you realise it was wrong to put on a public display and in future you will ensure you are more discreet. Then make sure you are. If you all know where you stand there can b no mistruct or understanding. Your parents were upset because they are worried you will becone pregnant and spoil wjat should be a promising future. They love you and only want the best for you. Likewise your bfs parents for him. The only way to get back trust is to tell the truth and come to an understanding with her. You are a sexually active female and are likely to stay that way. Once you have been sexualised you are no longer innocent and unaware.
Talk to your step mom and apologise for behaving irresponsibly by having sex on the beach in public. Explain you are sexually a woman and using contraceptives (make sure you are) , you realise it was wrong to put on a public display and in future you will ensure you are more discreet. Then make sure you are. If you all know where you stand there can b no mistruct or understanding.
Your parents were upset because they are worried you will becone pregnant and spoil wjat should be a promising future. They love you and only want the best for you. Likewise your bfs parents for him.

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